Have you ever watched “Dancing with the Stars” and wondered who was leading who?

Of course the natural conclusion is to believe that the guy leads. I don’t have anything against David Hasselhoff trying to do the cha-cha-cha but we all know that his partner, Kym Johnson, was in charge.

Kym’s role was to make sure that David not only learned how to dance but also learned how to lead. By teaching interdependence, Kym ensured that David would be able to dance without her.

Are you teaching how to lead or are you setting yourself up for life-long dance partner who can’t dance without you?