Seth Godin just dropped some knowledge that I needed today.

If you are anything like me, it’s a bit frustrating when people act irrationally and selfishly.

This behavior is widespread and no it’s not Millennials only.

Everyone exhibits a bit of childish and selfish behavior.

The key is how we handle our own behaviors and how we handle those we come into contact who act out.

In the blog Seth published today, his phrase of “How Dare You…” is empowering.

It states that “I am taking a stand” and “I am the kind of person who does something about it.”

How dare you is a position of “we aren’t the kind of people who act this way.”

If you want to move from a dramatic mindset to an empowering mindset then use the power of “How dare you!”

I dare you!!!  I double dog dare you!!!!!

“I would love to….”

“I have always want to…”

“I would love to help….”

These are all powerful starting statement but what if we spoke in a creation mindset?

• Create physical fun camps for youth to educate them on health and exercise.
• Create a service to help adults who are struggling to stay active because of age, marriage life etc..
• Create videos for youth & adult health and wellness.

It’s great to start with love and even better to end with a creation…

I create… I create… I create…..

 

I was on an expansion call yesterday with two peers.

One of the peers spoke about being first to join.

He has a track record of joining big movements first.

I wondered “why don’t I join movements first?”

Is it that I want to wait to see who does it first?

Is it that I want to wait until the price increases?

Or is it that I am waiting for more data to show up?

I bet it’s all three, sometimes or most of the time.

Or maybe, it’s risk and the appearance of risk.

Which we know aren’t the same thing.